15 Wedding Traditions From Around The World

A white wedding is not the only way to get married. From paying the the bride’s parents to eating black wedding cake, here are a few wedding traditions from around the world that will blow your mind.

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(EricEnfermero/Wikimedia Commons)

1. Lobola in South Africa

This traditional Southern African custom happens before the wedding when a man pays the family of his fiancée for her hand in marriage. The payment is traditionally done in cows, but in modern times it is done with money. Lobola’s purpose is to build relations between families.

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(Luigi Anzivino/Wikimedia Commons)

2. Sake sharing Ceremony in Japan 

In the Japanese tradition of san-san-kudo, the bride and groom take three sips each from three flat sake cups, after which their parents do the same, bonding the families together.

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(Supersentai/Wikimedia Commons)

3. Preplanned crying in China 

Weddings are emotionally draining as it is, but brides and females of the Tujia people in China have to cry for a whole month in advance. For one hour every day the bride must cry and is joined by her mother and grandmother.

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(Peretz Partensky/Wikimedia Commons)

4. Releasing doves in Philippines 

Forget cutting the cake together, at traditional Filipino wedding receptions, the bride and groom release two doves into the air. This represents a long, peaceful and harmonious life together.

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(Rystheguy/Wikimedia Commons)

5. A goose for the bride in Korea 

In Korean tradition, grooms give their new mother-in-laws wild geese or ducks. It apparently represents the groom’s pure intentions and loyalty to his bride. In more modern times, brides and grooms exchange wooden geese and ducks on their wedding day as a sign of their commitment.

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(Eric Baker/Wikimedia Commons)

6. Croquembouche in France 

At French weddings you’ll be served delicious croquembouche — a tower of cream-filled pastry puffed dipped in sugary sauces. The cake serves as a replacement for the “traditional” wedding cake and is also decorated with fruit, nuts, and glazes.

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(Dbenbenn/Wikimedia Commons)

7. Black wedding cake in Jamaica

Forget the red velvet or vanilla wedding cake, in Jamaica they have a black wedding cake made of dark fruits and rum. The same cake is also known as a traditional Christmas fruit cake.

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(James Gathany/Wikimedia Commons)

8. Spitting On The Bride in Kenya 

In Kenya, when the newly married couple leave the village, the father of the bride spits on his daughter’s head and chest so as not to jinx their good fortune. It’s pretty gross, but it is tradition.

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(Jonathunder/Wikimedia Commons)

9. Kransekake in Norway 

Norwegians have their own version of the wedding cake which is called a kransekake. It’s a tower of iced almond cake rings, and it is common to build the tower over a wine bottle so a nice treat appears as guests break off pieces of the dessert.

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(Stefan-X/Wikimedia Commons)

10. Polterabend in Germany 

The German tradition of Polterabend is when family and friends of the bride and groom smash dishware outside their homes on the night before their wedding. This tradition grew into hen nights and stag parties that we know today.

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(Richa Yadav/Wikimedia Commons)

11. Stealing the groom’s shoes in India 

During traditional Indian weddings, the bride’s sisters steal the groom’s shoes once he enters the wedding tent. The groom must then bribe the sisters to return his shoes before he exits.

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(Tela Chhe/Flickr)

12. Henna painted hands in India 

Also part of the visually beauty of a traditional Indian wedding is that the bride and other female guests get elaborate henna designs on their hand and feet to represent the joy, hope and love of the occasion.

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(lisa y. henderson/Wikimedia Commons)

13. Jumping The Broom in America

Done at most African-American weddings, broom-jumping is rooted in the days of slavery when marriage between enslaved men and women wasn’t legally sanctioned. The enslaved men and women would declare their union by jumping over a broom together.

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(Roger Griffith/Wikimedia Commons)

14. Marrying a tree in India

When a person in India decided to get married, they have to marry a tree first. Marrying a tree in India is symbolic as it infuses the present life with the supernatural life. Tree marriage was once widespread in India. The term can also refer to a nuptial ceremony that takes place close to a tree.

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(kanegen/Wikimedia Commons)

15. Bridal sedans and red umbrella in China

At a traditional Chinese wedding, a full procession will occur with the bride being escorted to the ceremony in a bridal sedan. Because red is a powerful colour, the bride wears a red veil to hide her face and her mother or attendant holds a red umbrella over the bride’s head to encourage fertility.

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